Do you like it when your kid(s) and other kids (from the neighborhood perhaps?) gather to play at your house, or do you prefer when your kid(s) gather(s) to play at someone else’s house?
Pros? At your house you always know what’s going on and can intervene if necessary.
Cons? Playing at your house = noise.
Pros? Playing at someone else’s house = quiet.
Cons? You don’t know what your kid is up to at someone else’s house.
What else? Talk amongst yourselves, and then comment. Can’t wait to hear your thoughts!